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Post by Tunes on Apr 19, 2009 0:43:18 GMT -5
oscarisamazing: I'm assuming she's a non bandie? Just wait until she's alone, and strike up a conversation. Ask her if she has a pencil, or if she has Mrs. So-and-So for whatever subject, and if she understands the work. Or, ask her if she has a brother named [whatever name. pick something normal, but obscure, so that she won't actually have a brother named that.] She'll say no, and you can say something like "Oh, really? Well you look just like him. His eyes are really blue like yours. (etc.)"
Usually bringing up school related things helps break the ice. Unless she's wearing a shirt or has some other items with a band logo on it. Say something about the band. Just make sure you know something about them. You don't want to be like "I LOVE THAT BAND" and not know any songs by them.
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Post by heepwah2you04 on Apr 19, 2009 12:29:51 GMT -5
Is it bad that I'm excited [trumpet] is txting me of his own free will?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2009 14:02:38 GMT -5
Not at all. He may just be bored, or he may have gotten whatever vibe you were sending him (I haven't read your previous posts)
EDIT: Having read your previous posts, you should be excited. Even if he is just bored, that means that he enjoys talking to you enough that when he sees you on his contacts, he thinks "hey, why don't I text her?" And that is a bare minimum. It could also be that he sees you as having potential or that he actually likes you now. Generally, a guy fresh from a breakup will miss being in a relationship, but not want to go after anyone, so if you can make yourself obvious, if he has any interest at all (as evidenced by his texting you), he will probably go for it, at which point it's all on you. By obvious, I mean stop short of confessing, because all but the most God-awful flagrance most guys will dismiss as their minds playing tricks.
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Post by heepwah2you04 on Apr 19, 2009 18:03:00 GMT -5
He was asking me about auditons for a play my other 2 friends were auditoning for. So I'm confused if he just wanted to talk to me or he just needed to ask someone.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2009 18:27:28 GMT -5
Could be that's all he could think of to say to you. Think if there was anyone "better" to ask.
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Post by heepwah2you04 on Apr 19, 2009 18:35:25 GMT -5
I really don't think so. He dosen't talk to either one of my friends that were trying out anymore.
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Post by spacermase on Nov 14, 2009 22:43:05 GMT -5
Ok, so I'm in serious need of advice here.
As some of you may know, I have not had the best luck on the dating scene. Recently, however, my best friend, whom I will refer to as M, has offered to set me up with one of her friends, G. The problem is that M isn't that close to G at the moment - they were close friends their first year of college, but haven't interacted much since. M's friend, T, however *does* know G quite well, but he's also M's ex, and they aren't getting along that well at the moment because of it. T was going to introduce me to G, but apparently has since dramatically changed his mind, probably to spite M.
So...I really would like to actually meet this girl G. She seems like a really nice kid, and M knows me quite literally better than anyone else on the planet, so I'm inclined to trust her matchmaking decisions. I just don' t know how to go about it at this point.
Any advice?
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Post by Lprdgecko on Nov 15, 2009 3:08:36 GMT -5
It seems like it's more of an issue between M and T than anything. It sucks that you are paying the price for it though. Does M have any other friends that know G and could introduce you two?
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Post by spacermase on Nov 15, 2009 23:51:02 GMT -5
...So, apparently it seems that G and T have unexpectedly become an item in their own right. Never mind then.
Sigh. I just can't win, can I?
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Post by Greenepony on Nov 16, 2009 0:55:49 GMT -5
I would almost wait till Grad School (you're graduating this year, right?) Before we started dating during his first semester of grad school, my boyfriend had had only one girlfriend and that was during his sophomore year for about a month (she was a few fries short of a happy meal from what I hear.) When we talked about the time in-between he said what while he wanted to date his junior year, once he started finishing up and knew he was going on to his Master's, he didn't want to date just because he was going through that transition, even though he wasn't leaving Waco. I've heard from other grad students in my small group who have felt the same. So, in short, I would advise [more] patience.
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Post by Lprdgecko on Nov 16, 2009 10:33:11 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that, Spacermace... That must really suck...
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Post by spacermase on Nov 16, 2009 21:20:42 GMT -5
I would almost wait till Grad School (you're graduating this year, right?) Before we started dating during his first semester of grad school, my boyfriend had had only one girlfriend and that was during his sophomore year for about a month (she was a few fries short of a happy meal from what I hear.) When we talked about the time in-between he said what while he wanted to date his junior year, once he started finishing up and knew he was going on to his Master's, he didn't want to date just because he was going through that transition, even though he wasn't leaving Waco. I've heard from other grad students in my small group who have felt the same. So, in short, I would advise [more] patience. I've actually thought about that, and may end up very well doing that. The only thing that stops me is the fact, that, honestly, I really really dislike being alone. Of course, I say that having just only moments ago landed a date for Friday with a cute 4th year Neuroscience major from the Swing Club. ;D
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Post by Lprdgecko on Nov 16, 2009 23:35:14 GMT -5
I would almost wait till Grad School (you're graduating this year, right?) Before we started dating during his first semester of grad school, my boyfriend had had only one girlfriend and that was during his sophomore year for about a month (she was a few fries short of a happy meal from what I hear.) When we talked about the time in-between he said what while he wanted to date his junior year, once he started finishing up and knew he was going on to his Master's, he didn't want to date just because he was going through that transition, even though he wasn't leaving Waco. I've heard from other grad students in my small group who have felt the same. So, in short, I would advise [more] patience. Of course, I say that having just only moments ago landed a date for Friday with a cute 4th year Neuroscience major from the Swing Club. ;D That's great! Congrats! Hope the date goes well!
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