Guys in band

[4thbassdrum4ever]

Alright so last year a guy joined band and he was two years older than me and he was really hot and I was the only girl who had the courage to talk to him. I got to now him really well and I thought he really liked me but then all the other girls finally worked up the courage to talk to him and he started ignoring me. That was irritating enough, but then this year, the same thing happened except it was with the 18 year old drumline instructor.
This year,though, it wasn't even that he started ignoring me (He's way too sweet for that) It's just that all the other girls got pissed cuz they were jealous and they all started treating me like crap. I just get so tired of being treated like crap(Whether it be by the guy or by the other girls) just because I'm the only one who's not afraid to get to know people.
Any other girls have the same problem?

[saxophoneismylife]

Ummm...nothing like that has happened to me but I've had my heart broken before. Before band camp my guy friend told me to eff off and I was ruining his "chances" with his girlfriend. So at band camp I asked one of my friends to ask him if he was still mad at me and he said "I don't have to answer if I don't want to!!" so then at the 3rd day of Band Camp at dinner, I said "What is your deal, dude!?" and he started yelling and swearing and all this stuff. So I sat at one of the tables and just started to cry. My friends were all like "Oh, don't cry! It isn't your fault." And then later I headed back to my dorm and he was talking about me! So I REALLY lost it and just RAN back to my dorm and was so mad and I was crying and then my section leader was asking me if I was okay and then she said "Let's go in my dorm and talk" so we talked for about 20 minutes. And then she said "Talk to me if there is ANYTHING going on between you two still, okay?" and I know her friends were asking her what was wrong with me, but I don't think she said anything.


My point: Guys can be stupid sometimes.

PS Me and the dude are fine now.